Friday 14 October 2016

Honeymoon....was it??!!



“So you guys are enjoying your honeymoon!!!” my friend exclaimed excitedly from the other end of the phone and she started laughing. From this side, we just smiled.

Well, it was nearly the truth. We had taken a full week off from all our personal and professional responsibilities. A well planned leave. We were away from family, and away from work. Just the two of us.

We slept long hours. We shared food. We spoke little but kept close. Phones were silent and television was shut. Laptops were left at home. Twice a day we moved out of our room to get some fresh air. Strolling slowing, holding hands all through.

We weren’t feeling the joy of love. But we had the comfort of marriage. There was no excitement of presentation, only contentment of presence. The ambiance, the place, the clothes, the looks, nothing mattered. Only thing which mattered was the companionship. Conversations were short, and meanings weren’t sought.

This one week spent together in a hospital room healed us. As individuals and as a couple. Marriage vows were revisited, but not stated. Beliefs were confirmed and reinforced.


Our ‘honeymoon in hospital’, as my friend referred to it, was thankfully short and sweet. We hope to revisit the experience. This time in another place, with another reason, but hopefully with the same success. And wish the same for you - another place, another reason, but the same success. 

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